Purpose – the why for our existence – that which defines us
as a person – that which causes us to be unique. Do you know your purpose?
Our children and youth are tested often during their
lifetimes, to judge how much they know, and what they know. Sometime between elementary school and
high school, they will take aptitude tests, psychological assessments, and
‘giftedness’ evaluations to determine what is the ‘bent’ or interests. The sad thing is that after all those
tests, they may end up wandering and drifting along through life, without a
sense of direction and purpose. We are discovering that many college graduates
cannot find jobs in their field of study and expertise, and they are either
unemployed or are settling for jobs that make them feel unfulfilled.
Do YOU know your purpose in life? What is your direction?
John Maxwell writes in his book Your Roadmap For Success , “Nothing can take the place of
knowing your purpose.” I believe that each of us is made by our Creator and a
portion of His image is in us. That means we each have a destiny – a
purpose. We are NOT here by
accident! The problem comes when
you don’t know that purpose. Years
are wasted searching, usually by trial and error, for a reason. Many miserable days are spent doing
“work” that produces no satisfaction emotionally, and that nagging feeling that
you are on a “cruise to nowhere”.
John talks about that in his book.
In many of the coastal ports of America, cruise line companies offer
“cruises to nowhere” (day cruises) – in other words, you pay to take a ride at sea, only to
return in a few hours to the same port you left, having went nowhere! Does this describe the way you feel?
All that effort, and you’re seemingly going nowhere?
Now let me quickly let you know that SUCCESS in life is a
journey --- not a destination.
Also, beware that success relates to your direction, and not your
destination. Since success in life
is a journey, you ought to know your direction. Have you ever heard someone
say, “You can’t get there from
here?” That means you are not
headed in the right direction! Which
way are you headed?
You must know
your purpose, so you can set your direction!
One of the ways you can begin to determine your purpose in
life, is to spend time reflecting on who you are? What do you like?
What activities bring you the most satisfaction? What energizes you? If you’ll stop and listen to yourself, ask
the tough questions, and be honest with yourself, you’ll begin to uncover that
inner purpose for your life.
Need help in asking those questions? Need help in finding your purpose? That’s what I would like to do --- come
alongside you as a friend, and help you unlock that destiny inside of you. Contact me.
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