REFLECTION

Driving along the highway the other day, I was listening to the audio book of John Maxwell’s classic, The 15 Laws of Growth.  Over and over John kept talking about the power of thoughtful reflection.  He made statements that said, in effect, “experience is not the best teacher…. reflective experience is.”  As I thought about this, I was conscience-stricken by the fact that many times I have attended seminars, read good books, heard fantastic speakers, then never took the time to stop and “reflect”.

We all are aware of the idea of reflection.  We’ve seen the awe-inspiring views of scenery reflected on the water.  We daily look at the reflection of ourselves in the mirror.  Where would we be without the mirror?  How would we prepare ourselves for each day without the reflection of who we are staring back at us?

But for a moment – let’s think about the other kind of reflection – the kind where we think about what we’ve learned, heard, or read – where we think about the experiences we have gone through.

One of my favorite Bible passages says, “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable n your sight, O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer” (Psalms 19:14).  There’s that word “meditate” or “reflect upon”.  

I’m not talking about some mindless transcendental meditation.  Even Confucius stated, “Learning without reflection is a waste. Reflection without learning is dangerous.”

Doing a word study on that Hebrew word for “meditate,” you’ll find definitions such as, “ruminate, roll over in the mind, analyze, study, imagine, muse, mutter, and groanings”.    To those who are familiar with cows and sheep – ruminate means the same as ‘chewing the cud’ – the process of a double digestion of food.

In life, we all have so much information flowing into our minds and lives – so many experiences – so many voices being heard.  How do you learn?  How do you apply what you’ve heard?  What do you need to apply, and what do you need to ignore?

We’ve heard the expressions, ‘head knowledge’ and ‘heart knowledge’ – how does information get from head to heart?  -     REFLECTION

John Maxwell talks about a “thinking chair” – a quite place where he goes to reflect and think.  We all need to do more reflecting – more mediation – more rumination.

If you want to change your life – change your future – change your family – start with some reflective thinking.  All actions are based in our thoughts.  Go to the source of your actions – think better – think and learn – and change for the better